Games People Play

Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships




The need for this book was indicated by interested requests

 from students and lecture audiences for lists of games, or for 

further elaboration of games mentioned briefly as examples in 

a general exposition of the principles of transactional analysis.


Forty years ago, Games People Play revolutionized our


 understanding of what really goes on during our most basic 


social interactions. More than five million copies later, Dr. 


Eric Berne’s classic is as astonishing–and revealing–as it 


was on the day it was first published. This anniversary 


edition features a new introduction by Dr. James R. Allen, 


president of the International Transactional Analysis 


Association, and Kurt Vonnegut’s brilliant Life magazine 


review from 1965.


We play games all the time–sexual games, marital games, 


power games with our bosses, and competitive games with


 our friends. Detailing status contests like “Martini” (I know a 


better way), to lethal couples combat like “If It Weren’t For 


You” and “Uproar,” to flirtation favorites like “The Stocking 


Game” and “Let’s You and Him Fight,” Dr. Berne exposes the

 secret ploys and unconscious maneuvers that rule our 


intimate lives.


Explosive when it first appeared, Games People Play is now 


widely recognized as the most original and influential 


popular psychology book of our time. It’s as powerful and 


eye-opening as ever.